July 09, 2019

Enough Excuses!


Ever wish you had the power to blast a village to smithereens?  One minute everything is peaceful and quiet, the next, boom, There goes Athabasca, or whoops that was Smith, or kablam Boyle, whomp so much for Colinton, and maybe if it’s been a particularly rough day, what the heck, let’s do away with Edmonton altogether.  Who needs them, right?  Or maybe set our sights really high and boom! Toronto is no more.  Good riddance, right?  Who needs them?
There certainly is biblical precedence for such things – Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed in fire, according to the Genesis story because their citizens were angry at the thought of having foreigners in their midst.  Elijah destroyed the messengers of a king he didn’t like, and slaughtered the prophets of Baal when he won a prayer showdown.  So it wasn’t like Jesus and his disciples didn’t know about holy smiting, dare I even say holy hand grenades, but Jesus rebuked his disciples and hurried on.
There are enough stories of Jesus encountering the Samaritans that ended more positively that I wonder why this time had such a negative reaction.  Remember the Woman at the Well?  Some bible scholars think it was Jesus focusing on getting to Jerusalem, and it was this urgency that led to the Samarians rejecting him.  They too worshipped using the Torah, and the teachings of Moses were very important to them.  However, they disagreed vigorously on where to worship.  Jews worshipped at Jerusalem, while Samaritans worshipped at Mount Gerizim, where Joshua was reported to have crossed into the Promised Land with the followers of Moses after their escape from Egypt.  So it could be that the Samaritans were open to Jesus teaching until he turned his face to the Holy City.  Then their gloves came off.
And the disciples, used to warmer welcomes or maybe feeling resentful and scared at having to go ahead of him to a Samaritan village, lost their tempers.  Were they afraid of the Samaritans?  Were they frustrated that their preparations were wasted?  Were they mad that Jesus spoiled it by talking about Jerusalem?  Were they feeling snubbed by not being treated with dignity worthy of rabbinical disciples?
Whatever they were feeling, they certainly weren’t feeling loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, generous, faithful, gentle or self-controlled.  And they certainly didn’t feel like loving their neighbours.  ‘If we hate them, God must hate them too’.  They were feeling quite human!
Haven’t we all been there?  Had those moments of thinking, ‘darn I wish I had something witty to say that would have put him or her right in their place’, or ‘I’ll show them!  Don’t know how, but I will.”  And in a small town, it’s really tricky.  As I only half-jokingly said to Tim when we first drove up to Athabasca, ‘be nice to everyone you meet, they might be related to someone at the grocery store who is packing your eggs for you.  Last thing you want is to find your egg carton under a sack of flour because you were rude to a waitress the night before.”
Small towns are challenging when you are angry at someone.  If you passionately love the River Rats Festival, for example, but can’t stand someone on the board, what do you do when their family works at BuyLow?  Often in towns, people don’t try to work things out, they just quietly stop going to the club or the committee.  They might grumble behind peoples’ backs to their friends but they won’t try to work things out.  They drop out of the Bowling league or the Golf tournament, and never say why.  And sometimes the resentment builds.
It’s a very human reaction.  Unfortunately, it can have some terrible results.  Toronto’s Gay Pride celebration was marred when some people decided to attack others because they felt they had the right to do so, wearing t-shirts with slogans like “read the Bible, repent and be born again”.  And in Hamilton too, there was a deliberate intent to inflict harm during the Pride event.  How people can bring a baseball bat to a parade in the name of Christ who taught us to love our neighbour, forgive our enemy, and pray for those who hate us, is a mystery I am bewildered by.  But it happens.
There have been surveys and studies done suggesting that the average high school student is less empathetic than they were a few decades ago.  That there is a sense among immigrants and minorities that they are less safe in Canada and the USA than they once thought they were.  There are children and infants living separated from their parents in appalling conditions in the US. 
One black pastor wrote that if there was even the slightest whiff that he had approached someone in a sexually inappropriate way, he would lose his job, yet the President of the United States is on record as saying horrible sexist things, has court cases pending against him and still has a high enough approval rating from his voter base that he might get a second term in office.
It boggles the mind.  So many excuses are given as to why we let such bad behaviour go.  It’s especially heartbreaking when it is done by Christians.  Jesus wasn’t calling us to insult our neighbours, judge our neighbours or even attack them.  Yet all too often we fall into an us vs them attitude and have a ready excuse to blow our tempers, get angry, yell or sulk or pout.  These are not gifts of the Spirit.  They are not what we are being called to.
We are called to be transformed into the likeness of Jesus.  We are called to be open to the Spirit’s transforming power that builds love, joy, peace and gentleness and generosity and kindness and self control in our lives.  I don’t know about you, but I’m still working on it, and I humbly pray that it will grow in me and in each of you as well.  Athabasca, Boyle, Smith and even Toronto need us now more than ever before.