November 14, 2023

Waiting with light

The hardest part of being a Christian is waiting for Jesus.  It’s not an easy topic as we can get mired in the hoopla and hysteria about the ‘second coming’ that has generated a bunch of silly ideas.  The bumper stickers that say “in case of the rapture this car will be driverless” or cartoons describing the way to scare fundamentalist Christians is to get a bunch of human-shaped helium balloons released in the air!  In this scripture, Jesus doesn’t talk about people learning how to defy gravity but about people being prepared. The wise virgins were ready with reserves while the silly ones ran out of what they had and didn’t think to get more until it was too late.

Of course, we want to see ourselves as wise and not silly.  We want to have reserves for when the Bridegroom arrives and the party starts.  And we recognize that the party has been waiting for a very long time.  The party where the Prince of Peace lives among us and the Community of Heaven is fully realized.

How do we keep prepared when it feels like the wait for justice and peace has been going on for as long as humanity has existed?  How do we find the energy and light to keep hoping and praying for peace for all who live on this big, beautiful planet? How do we find resiliency when times are hard, when people are divisive, when empathy seems to be at a new low, when politics are based more on conspiracy than facts, when leaders and scientists don’t speak with consensus or from self-interest rather than from what is best for us all, when global warming is dire, but war takes up more energy than peace?

How do we keep our lamps lit?  How do we wait wisely?

Joshua did it by setting an example of commitment to God.  “As for me and mine, we will serve God” he said, and he reminded people how they were rescued from slavery.  Most of them were the children and grandchildren of slaves, but they remembered their parents and grandparents telling them what slavery had been like and how hard it had been to wander in the wilderness until they accepted the fact that they were fully reliant on God for their survival.  That acceptance was not easy, and the book of Exodus is full of stories of Moses trying to get them to rely on God instead of looking back to the days of slavery where everything was decided for them.  They were told where to work, where to live, when to eat and when to sleep by their overlords. 

In the wilderness, every day was a choice, and every place they stayed had hidden temptations.  Let’s build a golden calf, let’s complain because we’re thirsty, let’s complain because we’re hungry, let’s complain because we got bitten by snakes and so on.  Every time they complained, Moses reminded them who they were, the children of Abraham and Sarah, Jacob and Leah and Rebecca.  Then Moses reminded them of what they had escaped.  The mindless slavery and petty abuse, the whips, the microaggressions, the racism and the times where they lived in fear that their babies would be killed on the whims of a power-hungry Pharaoh King. 

Joshua did the same to the people.  And in this scripture, he was about to lead the people into a new land where they would build homes, plant crops and live more stable lives than before.  But he warned them not to forget their past.  He warned them that following God had to be more than lip service.  It had to be a total commitment to living in a covenant relationship with God.  It wouldn’t be easy either.  “Our God is a jealous God” he said, a God that wanted more than a promise made one day and forgotten the next.

The parable of the 10 bridesmaids is also about commitment beyond lip service.  It’s not about just accepting Jesus into our hearts and we all live happily ever after.  The five silly bridesmaids knew the bridegroom, and even called him Lord.  That was not enough to get into the party. 

We don’t know why the silly ones were not more prepared.  Maybe they focused on getting their dresses just right and their hair just so.  Maybe they didn’t want to think about the future.  Maybe they were too busy having a good gossip fest or maybe they were tired and apathetic.  For whatever reason, they ran out of oil for their lamps. They failed in their duty to be light bearers for the bridegroom.

God wants more than lip service.  God wants to invite us to join in a wedding party like no other.  That’s hard to do when we feel caught up by the many gods competing for our attention.  It means remembering that God rescues us again and again from the slavery of addiction, anxiety, pessimism, worry and fear.  God feeds us again and again with our daily bread when we trust that God is with us even when we wander in the wilderness. 

Interestingly, the commitment the bridegroom needed from the bridesmaids, and that commitment Joshua asked from his followers is a big signpost of thriving United Churches in Canada.  Congregations that are thriving consistently talk about the importance of being committed to God.  They practice being positive about the future and trusting that God is leading them.  They are prepared to light the way for others to find the healing that they have experienced in their communities of faith, and they are intentional in choosing God at the core of all they do.

May we find the courage and conviction to turn away from the many false gods that clamor for our allegiance, to the true God who invites us with love.  May we put oil in our lamps as we wait for the bridegroom who will bring us into the great wedding banquet that never ends.  Amen.

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